Milton and I had a great weekend together, mainly because we were able to spend quality time together. I still hate that he has to run around so much doing errands for the both of us but he says one reason he got married is to be the provider and protector.
I was hoping to have some sense of normalcy while in the hospital and today some of those things happened. It started with a phone call from Chenica. Chenica is my AMAZING hair stylist that I’ve had for several years. Many of my friends now go to her also. I knew doing my hair everyday was not something that I could maintain, especially with my hair being pressed flat against a pillow. I reached out to her to see if she could help and on Monday afternoon she stopped by. I washed and conditioned it. Then she blowdried it and put it back in twists. The nurse and cleaning lady (both African American) came in while she was doing it and commented on how much hair I have. Although my hair probably looked very wild while she was blowdrying it, the finished product has made life easier.
Around the same time, Lucinda, the rector at my church, St. Matthews Episcopal, came to visit. She brought not only conversation, but communion. I had been down that I would be missing Palm Sunday and Easter, so I loved that communion could be brought to me. My church has a very special place in my heart. My mother and I faithfully attended every Sunday and many yearly traditions that I look forward to each year are based in that church. Although my mother has passed away, it’s been great to now share those experiences with Milton!